Hi 👋🏽 I'm
M. Aurelius Higgs

A 'Presence' Coach
for Parents of Preteens

I work with Certain Future to support parents of preteens (10-14 y.o.) so they can show up and maintain a meaningful relationship with their child during these natural 'identity breaking' years.We work with parents who know the value of doing hard things and want to be present with their son/daughter before it's too late to bridge the gap.

Using The SHOW Up Framework, parents benefit when working with us because:

  • They’re confident in their communication when their tween starts having big emotions.

  • They know how to be present when their preteen starts to withdraw, so their child continues to trust them and naturally opens up difficult conversations.

  • They know how to support their child in ways to develop self-belief and resilience.

The perfect parent for us to work with is
👇🏽 if you hear a friend or family member say:👇🏽

"My daughter is really hard on herself. I want to help her with her confidence."“My son is starting to pull away. How can I get him to open up?”“The teenage years are coming and I have no idea what I’m doing.”"I don't know how to talk to my child anymore. They're changing."

Your preteen is stressed as they enter this first stage of their adolescents.
— How are they stressed? —

To break these 'ICE Stressors', we SHOW UP for our preteens in 5 steps.
— What are the 5 steps? —

You know the 'WHY' and 'WHAT' of
"The SHOW UP Framework".
— Want to know 'HOW' it works? —

Discover how the SHOW UP Framework works
— PLUS —

For Parents of Preteens (10-14 y.o.)

Are you worried about the emotional distance developing
between you and your tween?

Live Training: Discover a simple human development approach to
nurture an anti-fragile mindset without
power struggles, frustrating talks, or permanent damage.